yes yes ... the workaholic is still working.. just paid 1700++ bucks for my studies.. big amount but end of the day worth it. psychology is something i always like to do. why psychology? today i think I'm being asked this question the 40Th time. reason why i like it and i want to do it is not career related. its more personal. firstly, its about understanding people's reaction. its never about knowing one's character more with the course. its about know why one person react in that particular way in that particular instances. from the micro view we look at individuals.. and from the macro we look at the society and when you merge everything together you will get that beautiful picture of life. at least for me, i did.
in the past when i was still young.. i always ask myself why is this "plotting" against one another thingy happens in the world. cause life can be simple why makes it difficult? now, i ask how can we see what's the trend in society and how it affects our lives in the individual. its a auto balance environment out there. society and individual auto balances themselves so that both can survive. Its a matter of survial which is a basic instinct of all animals, man kind included.
In this stress, sad world, the only way for us to survive is to "auto balance". be happy that you lived a new day.. be happy that you have those around you now, be it bad or good. be happy with what you are doing now. be happy with what you have in terms of assets don't hope to be a billionaire every time you wake up. cause not every one in the world can be a billionaire. and further more society always collapse when every one starts getting rich (economy melt down). imagine the day where every one owns the same amount of assets. no one will buy or need anything from another person anymore. there will be no economy. there is no meaning of life.
so LIFE is always NOT fair simply because it cannot be. some has the better some got it worst. so be happy, because being sad doesn't gives you better treatment in LIFE. make the better out of your situation be it good or bad. comments on the bad thing if it makes you feel better but don't remember the bad things cause you wouldn't be happy that way no matter how much you try.
so remember. be optimistic. be realistic. be humble. and simply be happy. you can be rich with happiness (definately) if you want. you cannot be rich with money (50% chance). so which is the easier way out?
*specially written for people who always think life sucks.
